There is something to be said for annual events. Whether it’s the family dinner on Turkey Day or the first day of school, these repeat occurrences force us to acknowledge change.
In this case, it’s our neighborhood’s annual Memorial Day bash. Thank you to our very kind friends just across the street for rolling out the welcome mat each and every year regardless of weather, busy schedules and prior year’s alcohol-induced behavior.
Yesterday was another great get together. But for some reason, this year really made me think. It’s crazy how being in the same place at the same time every year can really clarify all the changes – both good and bad – that have occurred in the past 365 days in our neighborhood, in our families and in our world.
This year the biggest change for us is the head count from the McGee house. For the first time, I RSVP’d for a family of 3 instead of 2. When Denny and I started attending the annual Memorial Day party a few years ago we were the ones leading the charge for more and more rounds of flip cup. We’d roll home way past midnight and then sleep a solid 12 hours all the while thanking the national holiday gods for the fact that we didn’t have to work until Tuesday. This year, we rolled a baby stroller home to ensure our munchkin could get 12 hours of sleep all while thanking our lucky stars for the littlest guest at the party.
Talk about change…really good change.
But then there’s all the other change, some good and some not so good. It’s crazy to think about the power of one year. Over the course of phone calls, for sale signs, text messages, trips to the hospital, conversations shared over coffee and conversations shared in driveways, the twists and turns of life are carved out in our worlds.
For some of us, change consists of a 4 new walls, new neighbors, and a new home.
For some of us change consists of welcoming a new life, or saying good-bye to a life you knew.
For some of us, we choose to leave for what we think is a better place.
For others of us, we fight like hell in hopes that we get to stay in what we already know is a really good place.
This change that we face is not always fair, and it’s not always easy, but it’s always there.
No matter how many years pass I still find it impossible to ever expect or to ever be prepared for all the change, yet I’ve learned that the trick to navigating it all is to have a good little support system around you. And if you’re really lucky that little support system will start right at your doorstep.
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